Your Hangout Message: "Maaaari ko po bang ikonsulta ang panaginip ng katrabaho ko? Mga 3-4 na beses na raw po niyang napapanaginipan na sumasakay siya sa elevator. Pagdating sa taas, pagbukas daw po ng pinto, maraming  bangkay ang nakikita niya, tapos ay may isang batang babae raw po ang humihingi sa kanya ng tulong.

"Maraming salamat po."

My answer: Hi _______!

Your co-worker is afraid of success, and feels undeserving and guilty whenever she achieves it. Tell her that everyone deserves success especially when it is attained through hard work and honest means. Her self-sabotaging attitude will lead her nowhere.

Your friend's childhood was not a happy one. She had male family members, a father and a brother, who believed (and maybe still do) that women should not be more successful than men. As a result, your friend kept her triumphs in life as great secrets. She has equated success with the betrayal of her father and brother.

Tell your friend that it is possible to love her father and brother and be the model of a successful woman at the same time.